Looking At Things From Another’s View
Posted on June 23rd, 2008 by Jason under Guest PostThanks Darren for the guest post. To all others, I will not be accepting any more guest posts or paid reviews in the near future; want to work on the bum marketing case study. @ Agent 001, the ad you submitted doesn’t seem to be displaying so please email me the image URL and your link and I’ll put it up.
“If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as from your own” – Henry Ford
I want you to think about something. Think about the last moment when you had an argument with a friend.
Good. Now think what caused the argument. Is it that you couldn’t understand his point of view? Or he couldn’t understand yours?
See, many problems could be easily solved if we just understood other people’s point of view.
This applies in internet marketing. How can you solve a customer’s problem if you didn’t understand his point of view? Some marketers say it in other words: “put into your customer’s shoes”. But I say “be in the same time in your and in your customer’s shoes”. Create a win-win situation.
Let me give you an example. Many marketers, in order to sell their product, just make a pitch about a product they sell and expect that somehow “magically” the interested “zombie prospects” will come and buy without hesitation. Sorry, but you gonna hardly get 100 prospects if you do this. People are not dumb (with some exceptions).
Now, let us take an opposite example. Ed Dale and Dan Raine created the Thirty Day Challenge site, a site where you can download very valuable free videos if you’re marketing beginner or even a veteran. With that, they make YOU want to get more of their stuff, even buy their product or get a paid membership!
This is a very famous concept popularized by Eben Pagan (his penname in the dating industry is David De Angelo) called ‘move the free line’. By moving the free line you create a win-win situation. You give away your best tips and advices on the niche where you market and your customers feel valued and gain trust in you. You win, they win.
So, the next time when you’ll be doing something in your business, ask yourself this question. Look from your customer’s point of view. Although it may sounds obvious, if you don’t get this foundation you’ll never be able to progress further. Often the simplest things are the most powerful ones!
Peace,
Darren
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Darren nice mind blowing article. I feel I kinda understand the line by Henry Ford. I am a thinker and like to think things both way. I agree we need to create a win-win situation. Thanks,it is informative for me.
@ Jason: I will mail you soon. I think as the image is hosted on blogger it is not displaying. Thanks for telling me.
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I agree completely, good post. This same lesson shows in a recent collaboration I have in the works for a stock market blog. Two very different ideas that me and the other owner sat down to work out in a friendly atmosphere and merge our efforts.
I kinda got a kick out of Agent’s “mind blowing” remark above
, and I wouldn’t say it was THAT good for me, haha, but a great reminder lesson that needed to be put out in the open 
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Pretty decent post IMO. Finding the exact way to market to a particular genre is probably the hardest part of Internet Marketing. Of course every marketing campaign would work great if you were trying to sell to yourself. Finding what your potential target audience wants is key. Finding what that is by stepping back and viewing it from their perspective is the hard part! I would guess this is what makes the great marketers what they are (I wish I could hone that skill!).
great one. Not many people will have that perspective on their minds…
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And looking at things from a different point of view isn’t limited to internet marketing, you can use it in your daily life.
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I always try to change perspective, just in case something is different from other point of view.
Nice post. Thanks Darren.
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I can see where you are coming from with this, and it makes sense. A lot of marketing has to do with psychology and understanding how the mind works.
If you can get into their mindset, or simply put yourself in their mindset and figure out what would get your to complete the desired action, you will have better success getting others to complete that action.
At least…..I think so….
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It’s a different way to “sell” something. The stereotype is like two people sitting across the table from each other. The salesperson is trying to 1) explain the features 2) overcome objections and 3) close the sale. It’s an adversarial process at best. It’s a lot better to get onto the same side of the table, see the problem from the customer’s perspective and work together to find a solution that is truly a win-win. BTW - found you while I was “stumbling” - great post. Take care…
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